Perception and judgments can be harsh.
Some perceive based on how you dress. Some perceive based on how you physically look. Some perceive on how you react in certain situations. Some perceive on how you present yourself. Some perceive on your social skills. Some perceive by your actions. Some perceive based on your moral underlining.
Then some take all those perceptions, and place them in the judgment calculator. And out pops me/you/us/The World.
I can be the devil in the eyes of a religious grandma, I can be a white supremest in the eyes of a mixed-race racist. I can be a clean freak in the eyes of someone who is messy. Or possibly a rude snob in the eyes of the My-Mommy-Does-Everything-For-Me-Type rude snobs.
Which is quite quite fucked up? Surely?
As it can mean life or death in some situations. It can mean respect or lack of. It can mean raise or retrenchment. Cookie or no cookie.
It can even get hell-of-a confusing. Ie I can perceive that your perception of me will be somewhat irregular, if I happen to do something that I perceive to be, morally incorrect. Self awareness?
Rude people are often the ones that quickly point out how rude someone is?
This could change the perception of perhaps an initial, good impression. To a now, long lasting, bad impression. What makes it worse is, impressions can change over time, as we evolve, learn, accept, stress, adapt, relax, understand, apprehend etc. And can play a very significant affect on our lives.
One may be professional at work, but a junkie at home. One may be lazy in the office, but a loving parent at home.
So for example.
If someone fucks a cow, they will commonly be known as a cow fucker? Surely?
This would be a common perception based on the obvious. It would be difficult for the cow fucker to make others think otherwise. As no one is going to be concerned with the one human the cow fucker has been with before. However with that, there will also be the small minority that may perceive the cow fucker to simply be an extravagant animal lover? Or perhaps an even smaller minority will believe that the cow fucker was just in the WRONG place, at the wrong time? Whats could be even more screwed up, is the perception of one who accepts animal shagging? He/she might be overwhelmed by the cows’ size…
So you see. This basically explains why we all shouldn’t really give a fuck about one another. And we all should just die long, lonely deaths…
Right?
Fuck… I don’t know. Just smile for the camera 
